𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 - 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 - 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫

Have you always secretly craved to be appreciated and adored by people? Have you observed and are a bit envious of people who always seem to get their way around with people and are loved by all? It is not a Herculean task to be liked by everyone, but very simple changes that we can make in our behaviour and personality. If you really want to make people

love you, here is a simple formula – love people unconditionally.

Be open and talk. The more open and talkative you are, the more you will be liked by people. Develop the art of storytelling and narrating incidents in details so that people can visualize them. Give them an experience. But be careful to notice if they are getting bored or are not understanding something. Align yourself with the pace of others. People love those who are open and talk freely and you do not have to constantly fret over what the other person is thinking.

Ask questions and listen more. Learn to ask good and relevant questions. Give time to a conversation. It is human nature to be helpful and share what we know or have experienced. When people confide in us or need our help, the liking is mutual because we love to share and help, provide answers and the other person can use our assistance.

Usefulness increases likeability because of dependence. It is a known fact that a person is liked and appreciated only when he is useful for others in any way. It can be regarding the provision of some service, advice or any other help. It is nice to be available for other people and invest your time and efforts to aid them. Help people unconditionally, with a no-strings-attached philosophy. But make sure you are genuine and have the innate desire to help and not manipulate.

Care for others lovingly. Caring is putting aside our own interests for some time and genuinely work towards the betterment of others, even those who are not related to us and even when there is no perceivable benefit to us by helping them. Empathise with others and their situations. This requires effort and a drive to do good for and to others.

Do not try to be right every time. Most people try to win arguments, stress about proving their point and being right all the time. It is absolutely alright to not know everything and to admit it. That way we seem more human and approachable. We would rather be effective than right, to be likeable. We must aim at winning people rather than arguments.

Accept people as they are. Everyone is different in terms of thinking, mindset, beliefs, approach, qualities, limitations and thought processes. We all are unique as well as flawed in our own special ways. And that makes us more endearing. Accept people as they are, rather than trying to complain about them, correct and customize them. We must recognize and appreciate the good in others and overlook the negatives. This works wonders and people tend to like us more.

Forgive easily and happily. We all think, speak and act differently. Life is perception. What is right for someone, may not be right for other people. That does not mean that a person is wrong. Be open to differences of opinion and mindsets. It is human and ok to make mistakes. Do not judge others. Forgive people easily, let go and move on. Most importantly, learn to forgive your own self. Do not be too hard on and overcritical of yourself and others. This will make you more peaceful and internally happy.

Lighten up and have a sense of humour. Everyone appreciates a joke, smile, happiness and laughter. People tend not to dislike those who make others laugh and have a carefree attitude towards life. People who can laugh at themselves are always loved by people. But you must understand the thin line between laughing with people and laughing at someone. Never humiliate and embarrass others. Smile easily and laugh. You will win people over. Also, do not focus too much on your personal issues and focus on the bigger picture. It is not always about you. Learn to live in the present and go with the flow.

Be flexible, adjustable and adaptable. Do not be too pushy with your particular likes and dislikes. Never enforce your views on others. Learn to be flexible, respect other people’s choices and moods, adjust happily and adapt to the situation and circumstances.

It is ok to admit your weaknesses. We are all human. No one is perfect. Stop trying to be perfect and pleasing others. Be natural. It is absolutely alright to admit your weaknesses and challenges. People are smart enough to figure them out themselves. But if you are open about them, you will win over people. People will offer solutions, help you and like you more. You will realize that you are never alone. Be careful not to discuss your personal problems with everyone and play the victim.

Love people unconditionally. Love makes the world go round. Love is that internal feeling that has less to do with others, but more to do with your own self. The more you love others unconditionally, with no expectation in return, the more people will trust and adore you. It will give you peace of mind and a feeling of joy and bliss.

Mastering the above simple tips can make you a hit with people and enhance your communication skills as well as build robust interpersonal relationships.

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